Shit. This pain is consuming me. I scare myself. kcuF

First essay after forever... :)

Heart vs. Mind
Is it mind over heart? Or heart over mind?

One thing that'll clear everything up: No such thing as a "heart". O sige na nga. No such thing as a thinking, aching, breaking heart.

There should no longer be a debate. It's not mind over heart or vice versa. It's just mind, mind and mind. Have I said mind? :)

Wow noh? And to hear this from a romantic! :P But seriously, if there's one thing I've learned from Friday, it's that everything is rational. Everything can be explained, believe me. It's just that some reasons are beyond us. In short, just because we don't know what the explanations are doesn't mean the explanations don't exist.

Love is just a question of "What is more important: your happiness or mine?" Everything revolves around that.

Selfless
Your partner's happiness is more important than yours. You don't care even if that happiness takes you out of the equation, or if it asks that you give up your band, or if it ultimately makes you unhappy. What is important is that your partner is happy.

Heart over mind? Nah. Others before me lang.

Selfish
Your happiness is more important than your partner's. You can't afford to change your plans for the future, or break your promise that you'll be single til you're forty, or give up one and a half hour of your study time to hang out with that person. You can't sacrifice your happiness for a freak like that. If he can't take it, he can leave.

Mind over heart? Nah. Me before others lang.


See the diff? Both are rational, but they regard the two things [i.e. self and others] differently, and that we cannot debate about. :)

Significance: The next time someone tells you "Hindi mo kasi ginagamit ang isip mo kaya ka nasasaktan!", aba, patayan na! LOL. You know what to tell them...

"It's not that I'm not using my head. I'm using it, but for someone else's benefit for a change."

Mabuhay ang mga tanga masarap magmahal! :)


PS You are my sunshine, my only sunshine
You make me happy when skies are gray
You never noticed how much I loved you

Please don't take my sunshine away...

PPS Mahal na mahal kita, pero kung talagang hindi natin maaring bigyan ng pagkakataon ang sarili nating magkasama, hayaan mo akong mahalin ka, kahit sa malayo lang. Hindi ko na lang ipapaalam sa'yo. Wag mong hilingin sa'kin na hindi ka mahalin. Hinding-hindi ko maloloko ang sarili ko...
kitten posted @ 8:13 AM